College Time

Today is the day I take my oldest daughter to college in Louisiana.......I figured I would be pretty torn up when it was time to say goodbye, before I headed back to Tampa, but it has been really hard this morning, looking at her room all emptied out, and the suitcases piled up in the foyer......I've had this person in my everyday life for 18 1/2 years, not I will not be part of her daily life, and she will not be a part of mine....physically speaking anyway. I will not hear the pounding sounds of her music resonating from her room, or see the little drawings she does around the house, or hear her argue with her younger siblings......a major component of my daily life will be missing. I am so proud of her, and I am happy she is doing what she is doing, but it is so hard to see things change in this way. I guess I have gained a new respect for my parents in feeling a little bit of what they felt when my brother and I left the house. There is just no easy way to say goodbye to a child, knowing that when they come back to visit, it will be just that, a visit, and they will change in ways you won't realize until you see them again....growing up, maturing, gaining Independence...and you will not have been a part of thoses changes as you have been for so long......they will come from your child, and the other influences around her. I guess grown ups keep growing up too.

Seminole Heights Real Estate Recovering?

I have been watching the listings and prices in our neighborhood, and while my observations are not scientific by any means, I think I am seeing an uptick in both buying activity and prices....I use Zillow (not religiously....there are plenty of bugs) as an unofficial gauge.....it shows recently sold properties and properties for sale....my estimated value has climbed almost $100K over the past couple of months....for awhile it had the lowest estimated value in the area, which didn't make sense to me since we have a double lot. Again, Zillow is NOT an accurate valuation tool, but you can sort of pick up on trends by looking at the sold properties. While some properties have been on the market forever, I do see some movement, and if something is priced right, it sells, unlike the way it had been for awhile where nothing was selling no matter what the price was. My next door neighbor has put his house on the market again at a lower price....I will be curious to see what happens and when. I wish him luck.....
I received our TRIM notice this week, and I was quite happy with it....almost $2K down from last year. That's a lot of wood!

Loooong Time

I have neglected to post for a couple reasons; the 1st being that I have been so consumed by my work that I have not had the chance to breath.....the 2nd being that in being so consumed by my work, nothing much has happened to write about (except a couple things...I will mention) and the 3rd and most embarrassing, I kind of lost my log in information, and never got around to recovering it so that I could sign on and post......

In the past few months, bedsides working insane hours at my bank, I have dealt with my husband being extremely sick......some mysterious infection which caused a 30 lb weight loss in a short amount of time....compounded by his bad knee, he spent 5 days in the hospital, and is still, a month later getting daily IV antibiotics. During this time, I had to bring my good old buddy Louie, a 15 year old cocker spaniel in to be put down......which was extremely difficult, but I am glad I was in there with him........

My husband is better, I still miss Louie, and I am still slammed at work, trying to hire someone currently, which should help, but until then, I might as well bring a pillow in. I can't complain though, I am happy to be in the role I am....many people are not.

Today is my birthday...so my gift to myself is to take a few minutes to myself and type about myself....selfish, heh?

Due to my schedule and my husband's illness, my house is a disaster area, my back yard has been reclaimed by weeds and vines and the front yard needs attention in a big way...we will deal with these items....one by one......I had started mulching the back yard and planting some trees as "anchors" planning on putting pathways into the mulch....I can't even see mulch right now.....2 /3rds of the yard had been mulched, but the weeds have covered it....I'm told some round up and a weed wacker will restore my mulch to it's former glory...not so sure, but we'll see. The Japanese plum and rubber trees we planted are doing well back there...albeit a little diminished in the tangle of weeds. Maybe I will have another porch party and make it a "weed the backyard" party....bring your garden gloves and I will provide beer!
Time to climb back onto the hamster wheel.......I now have my password, so I will post again and not wait 6 months........